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AEM Family Mental Health

Aneta Merlino, MS., LMFT

About Aneta

Hi, I provide mental health counseling to couples, families and individuals with a focus on relational issues. I am passionate about supporting clients in creating connections built on mutual trust and respect, rooted in emotional safety and truth. Experiencing being in these relationships in turn allows you to feel safe, supported and able to express yourself fully without fear of judgment, dismissal or rejection. Because I believe in treating relational issues holistically, I have learned the following issues often need to be looked at and addressed in both individual, couples and family work:

·       Understanding our family of origin patterns are contributing to how we show up in relationships now

·       Processing past overwhelming experiences leading to current distress

·       Learning how to recognize and express our own needs to feel safe and connect with others

·       Recognizing and taking ownership of how we show up and contribute to shaping interaction with others

·       Learning strategies to regulate our nervous system and practicing self-care to attend to our well-being

·       Practicing self-compassion, and understanding our emotional needs first so we can genuinely care and hold space for our loved ones

·       Using the present moment to work for us as we learn to quiet our mind and habitual chatter to become more still and hear our deeper “knowing”

My professional training consists of a Bachelor of Art in Psychology and a Master of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy. In our work I apply the following modalities: Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy, Experiential Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, and mindfulness techniques. For clients needing to process traumatic experiences I am an Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)-trained therapist and can offer this modality in addition to talk therapy. Prior to starting a private practice my clinical experience included providing mental health support in community and group practice settings where I witnessed how creating “safe relationships”, rooted in presence, attunement and emotional safety foster the foundation for healing interpersonal dynamic and alleviating distress.

Our work is always collaborative and meant to empower you. I seek to provide care and treatment to match who you are and what brings you in. I focus on creating presence in the therapeutic space and let this guide the process. I aim to always establish emotional safety for everyone in the room and intend to create long-lasting positive change by identifying and addressing the root of your distress.

Please reach out if the above resonates and you feel drawn to explore working together.

Training and Education

BA, Psychology; University of Washington

MS, Marriage and Family Therapy; Seattle Pacific University

Emotionally Focused Therapy; ICEEFT, EFT & EFFT Training

EMDR Trained Therapist; EMDRIA

Clinical experience working with clients of various ages, ethnicity, and sexual orientation

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Treatment Offerings

Couples Therapy, Premarital & Relational Support

·       Improve communication to manage conflict

·       Heal from infidelity & breach of trust

·       Strengthen the emotional bond

·       Increase intimacy

·       Gain conflict resolution skills

Individual Therapy: Relational Issues

·       Heal codependency

·       Stop conflict avoidance

·       Process past overwhelming experiences leading to distress

·       Build relationships based on authenticity and connection

Family Therapy

·       Reconnect with family and loved ones

·       Strengthen emotional bonds

·       Heal from past emotional wounds

·       Create emotionally safe environments  

Fees: Couples, Individuals & Families

Consultation Call: Free

50 Minute Session: $170

Although I do offer sliding scale options designed to provide service for individuals experiencing financial scarcity as outlined below, I acknowledge full fee counseling fees can feel unobtainable for many who would not necessarily qualify based on the below criteria for reduced pricing and would still greatly benefit from receiving services. If you can relate and feel strongly drawn to work with me, I encourage you to reach out and explore options for us working together.

Sliding Scale

If you are currently experiencing financial scarcity defined by the below criteria and unable to pay full rate for services please reach out by email to inquire about current opennings for reduced fees.

Insurance

I can provide you with a monthly superbill if you seek reimbursement from your insurance provider. Please contact your insurance directly to obtain information about your benefits reimbursement options for mental health services when working with an Out-Of-Network provider.

Get in Touch

Please email a brief message about your current needs, and best times to connect for a 15-minute call.

I look forward to connecting.